~Alex In Heart~

The other day,I had this awesome day with Ucu and we watched this:

"He's Just Not That Into You"

At the end of the movie, I was like.. 'I wish I'm in love right now..' but hey,yes with that sweet little idiot things stuffed inside my head. It is undeniable that I can't move them out.I was so-so-sooo into Alex though at first he's being ignorant, acting cool and put Gigi aside (not Gigi the tooth oke)

I have to admit that the most charming,gorgeous, heart-melted guy in this movie will definitely goes to *drum rolls* NEIL!! but stop now! Reality check please- NEIL is exceptional and so do GIGI. Then, I think everything is exceptional and I'm just day dreaming... *sambil kesat air mata*

Movies are done to give us happy ending and yes, to state a moral value that 'What Goes Around Comes Around' or 'What You Give, You Get Back' kind of things or Karma? Stop the crap Syud before you ramble more and more. *grin*

 There are like lots of article regarding this best selling book and a nice feedback from Terrence Real, founder of the Relational Recovery Institute in Cambridge, Mass, and author of several books on male emotional health including, How Can I get Through to You: Closing the Intimacy Gap Between Men and Women made me smile.

"The book is implicitly teaching women to have good psychological boundaries, meaning that if he's just not that into you, it's not your problem, it's his and you need to deal with the fact that for whatever the reason this guy is not interested in a relationship with you," he says.

So what? It's the reality and I don't think it matters to people. We live to be happy. Not to be wondering by excuses or questioning on "Why does that guy didn't fall for me like I did?." Life has its own upside down. If things sucks, then back-off. Move on. Seek for others. *Jangan duduk atas sofa,tengok cite cintan sambil nangis dan lap air mata. Tak berbaloi!* :D

What matters is to be HAPPY. That is why we seek for happiness. Do you get that?

Life is a gamble, and so do love or marriage. It's all about luck. I know in Islam we don't believe in luck- it is more towards Qada' and Qadar. :) If you feel hurt or sad, pray to HIM. He listens and surely will help you out~~ *wink*

footnote: Alex is inside my heart although I love to have Neil (hampir sebak saat Neil ada di dapur dan basuh pinggan) for the rest of my life. Eh? Can I like have both of them? or someone with both criteria *grin* :D

p/s lagi: ucu suh bubuh.jadi saya copy and paste dari blog saya. grammar hancus oke. harap maaf~ :D. 5 stars untuk cite ini! sangat best ohke!!! *lompat bintang*