Of Arrogance

I know this better than you!

Yes, as the title says, I am saying that I know better than you. Though knowing that you guys are just kids and most probably without the proper level of some might say intelligence, insight followed by the inability to comprehend something deeper than what your shallow/ one dimensional mind can muster. I am going out of my way and being thoughtful enough in sending out this message of understanding and realization.

Proclaiming, to proclaim, Worst still to self proclaim! In full earnest to self proclaim that one is a nice person is already revolting and a clear sign of one not being ‘nice’. How can a person categorize…or worse still a group of people putting themselves in the circle of this so called ‘nice guys’ movement?

Alright then, the main issue here being; feeling used and unappreciated or to put it more bluntly on not getting laid as often. If you allow yourself to be used, then why complain? Shut up and go on living like that. Think of it as an investment…who knows that one day your cruel intentions will pay off. After all being ‘nice’ comes down to getting in someone else’s pants as a reward. I am not even saying that you should be ashamed of yourself. I am neither saying nor even to remotely give the slightest inclination that I am a nice person. All I am saying that it is not nice.

However I am going to say this, if one does something with a clear conscience with pure intentions, one will not complain off being used, logical enough?

Who are you trying to kid with such resentments, disappointments as an effect, resulted to this burst of emotions…emotions filled with anger, if not yourself?  A fuming expression on not getting laid or being paid with the outcome that u have time and time again pictured in your head. I am not saying that I don’t do that…I am just saying that it’s not nice.

There are nice guys, nice people in this world but almost no one is constantly in the ‘nice mode’ for one to be always nice at all times, is illogical. Because a person before doing something or acting on anything will refer to the self and on what it has to gain, unless that one is selfless.

Although I might agree with your shallow, biased definition of ‘nice’, the correct meanings of the word, ‘nice’ are: pleasing, agreeable, delightful, amiably pleasant etc.

If you think that you’re being used, then don’t get used to being used. Helping a friend with the intention of eventually getting into her pants is not nice. I am not saying that I have anything against that or against you; I am just saying that it’s not nice.

Speaking of girls, we all know…heck even girls know that they’re fully capable and can be as much as a jerk than guys are. Where’s the shocking element in what I just said?

Today, there are many fields, industries, occupation and many subjects in which girls or the feminist movement wishes to be on par with or better than guys, well girls…. You can be equally or even more of an impressive jerk than we jerks can. I am not sure whether that’s a good thing though.

Sure methodically you guys are more subtle and snake like (just a metaphor nothing personal :P) your delicateness deludes us males who are often dumb when facing your entirety. 

On a more personal note, since we are on the subject, I too have something to express on; I realized that when watching movies, movies based on a true story. The cool, savvy, heroes whom I adore will eventually be brought down by women. It just pisses me off to see that in the movies! And indirectly put unhealthy thoughts in my mind.

Furthermore I am also guessing that it is only natural for a guy to be tangled up with a women one minute and drop down dead the next, some of you guys would be going, ‘tell us something we don’t already know.’ But it’s just sad witnessing it time and time again. Although silently knowing that men, no matter what happens will still fall for the same obvious trick countless times when it involves a woman. All I am saying that if a guy is really nice, he wouldn’t fall for that. Hence that too proves of your un-niceness! Here’s a well established proverb, “A man’s test in life is woman; a woman test in life is material.” (Girls, this doesn’t mean I like u any lesser! ;))

Coming back to the initial subject, going about and complaining about how nice of a person you think you are and having your ‘nice friends’ agreeing with you is just utterly sad and almost pathetic, almost sickening, nauseating and definitely not nice! It is so un-nice that it even brings out the evil in others.

Finally being nice is not the equivalent of being stupid. An idiot is an idiot. I am also not saying that I am not an idiot. Having said all that I have, I am also going to say that I have nothing against you people. I just have something against people in general. Stop thinking that you’re nice be more honest with yourselves and you don’t have to be nice all the time, not that you can.

I know this better than you!